Name the pathway you are foregoing.
Every choice forecloses another. The cost of a call is the value of the next-best path you are choosing against — that is its opportunity cost. The trade-offs you accept define what you actually value, and the most valuable items are the most costly. If you cannot name what you are foregoing, you don't yet know the cost of the call.
Try this
- What pathway am I choosing against by saying yes here?
- If I say yes to this hour, what am I implicitly saying no to this week?